Friday, November 26, 2010

The Friend with Benefits that Couldn't Cope?

Jesse decides that in a big city, with a busy job, and not enough amazing princes, she might as well as explore the friends with benefits options.  So, Jesse finds this guy and they realize that dating will not work out, but they both have their needs.  So they decide to be friends with benefits.  But before it even takes off, she is receiving a string of text messages, and even phone calls.  Does this FWB understand he is just that, and nothing more?  Jesse gets irked but tries to quell his neediness.  One night after she was asleep, a text message bleeped its head into her dreams, only to awaken her.  She reads it, and falls back to sleep.  It was neither critical or riveting, so it did not warrant a reply.  This FWB freaked out.  He wanted a reply, and was so hurt to get the shield of silence instead.  Jesse gasped with frustration as this dude she just wanted to pounce on now and again who was suddenly thinking she had to emotionally relate to him and actually care one ounce about his feelings.  What is wrong with this situation?  Nevertheless, her needs were real so she decided it may be worth it to try and lay down the law and establish ground rules for a better non-relationship of sorts.  So they made rules.  And as soon as she could lay them down, Mr. FWB broke them.  He just needed more.  If ever there was a man I could tell this story to, surely they would not believe this to be true.  But, Jesse witnessed it in the thick of this big, bustling city.  She found a man who was fun to toy with in bed (they had already enjoyed a 4-5 hour romp of rolling around, kissing, fondling, and rolling around some more) but who could not detach his emotions.  Wow.  After sharing this with her girlfriends over lunch in the Eating Hall below the Plaza Hotel, she quickly gets a name of a new FWB character that may work out much better than the first.  This gent was already proven to be a detachable, fun loving, sexy and reliable friend with benefits and she is thrilled to try for a new one!  Jesse decides just like that, the first guy is out, and he could take his emotional clinging with him!

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