The obsessed

Sometimes you head out for a girls night out with hopes of lively banter, views of cute boys, maybe some fun flirtation and an opportunity to bond with your fabulous girls.  You are in the middle of doing just that, everyone has a stool at the bar, eyes are casing the joint, laughing at the ratio of men to women in this dive bar and a total menace approaches.  This particular menace is unruly, wasted, persistent, ravaged with bad breath, and stammering about, wavering against the bar and invading our space.  All it takes is a few more minutes and there you have it, the girls get pissed.  They ask him to leave, and he won't.  He just keeps on and on.  Why do the obsessed weirdos exist and persist?  Later that evening the girls evacuate, running down the street to ensure the creep is not on their trail.  They land at another spot, and chat with some sweet young lads.  Before departing, one of the young lads got so persistent about getting Ginny's number, she said "darling this is not realistic, I am a decade older and I simply know how these things end!" She felt like Samantha in SITC, breaking this cute little lad's heart that night as she fled the bar without handing over her digits.  Sometimes when you could care less, the men just want you more.

Cup of Tea & An Orgasm

How does one go with the other you ask?  Exactly!  Thus, Mina's confusion when she decided to go back to Shawn's place after their first kiss.  Her goal was to hang out for a bit more, kiss more, and head home in an hour so.  No harm, no foul. She was definitely not staying the night, and she was not giving anything up.  He was nice, their kiss was nice and it beckoned a bit more time together.  She settled in on his couch and Shawn being a gracious host, offered up a drink, "beer, water, perhaps a cup of tea?" He was a UK gent, so of course a cup of tea was in the mix.  She smiled and was refreshed by this international mingling.  Mina said some water would be nice, and they snuggled on the couch kissing and exchanging stories.  It was nice.  He was sweet, and the moment was one of those innocent and yet blissful times in life where you just want the exact thing to just remain and not go any further.

Suddenly, Shawn looked into her eyes and said, "Would you like an orgasm before you go?"  Just like he was asking if Mina would like a cup of tea. He used the same tone, the same voice, and the same polite, yet nonchalant attitude.  She could barely muster a response past her gasp!  "Um, no....thats ok!"  

While the gesture was perhaps thoughtful, unselfish, sensual...the verbalization was simply far too blatant.  She would rather not be asked if she wanted one of those, and would simply like for that to happen at the right time, in the moment, heated up, with desire flying off the richter scale and passion exploding, not sitting on a couch being offered up a cup of tea and an orgasm before she departed.  

Lost in Translation....perhaps?

Raw Desire

Sometimes despite age, distance, reality, and other pertinent factors, there is a truly raw desire which exists between 2 human beings that just beckons to be realized.  Whether it was in the air, the music that pounded within the walls of this steamy gay nightclub, the moon outside or the drinks consumed that evening, Shea and this gorgeous gentleman found each others' eyes quite a few times.  Across the crowded dance floor, they managed to pass quite a few messages of seduction just with their eyes.  Gaining courage, this gorgeous man walked by, with his eyes focused on Shea.  She stopped him and conversation ensued.  They danced a bit, they stared into each other's eyes and felt the desire.  They stepped outside so he could smoke, and they could gain some privacy to talk, and soon enough, they simply realized the desire and their lips met.  Inside, her friends were dancing while the music pumped and the reality of these two was far from feasible, however both threw caution out the door and enjoyed the moment under the moon.  The lights from the street cast a warm glow on his face, and he smiled as he gazed at her.  She smiled back, and he told her she was sexy in his lovely accent.  She enjoyed his sweetness, his beauty and continued kissing him.  The night ended on the dance floor, with more kisses.  Longing for more, but leaving it as so.  Unrealized passion but a raw desire that cannot be argued.  A cameo in life that provided a simple, glorious experience of sexiness.

Every little thing she does is magic

Everything she does just turns me on!
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When a person radiates happiness and energy, they become a magnet for others.  Unplanned and completely naturally, Miss Gia found herself in a spectacular place somewhat suddenly.  She was happy, eager to capture as many experiences as possible and excited about the new direction her life was going.  In this new enlightened state of mind, Gia was smiling all the time, running here and there, and diving into life with a new fervor.  Suddenly, she found herself meeting all kinds of new people, and drawing heaps of male attention.  She was loving this and enjoying every last minute of the fun doses of attention from all these lovely creatures.  Its funny how that works?  When you have a mission and you want so badly to find a partner, you find absolutely nothing.  In fact, perhaps you find bad eggs!  But when you are immersed in joy and excitement and you are completely happy with yourself, you draw in all kinds of great attention.  Its a beautiful thing.  So, even though we all know time ticks on, and being single has its up and downs.....embrace what you have.  Live each day to the fullest.  Flirt with that cute boy you see, smile at the stranger, sit down at a bar next to a guy you don't know and say hi, run down the street smiling ear to ear and just see what happens....I guarantee you will broaden your horizons!