Vegas Girls Gone Wild

Ms. B went to a Vegas with a mixed group of ladies, some she knew, and others she did not.  As soon as she arrived, she quickly realized that she was in for a girls gone wild sort of weekend.  She arrives to her friend Erica handing her a cocktail.  up to the penthouse they go!  She was eager to meet the other ladies.  She peeks into one of the bedrooms to find a woman crawling around on the bed in panties only with a gorgeous male.  "Oh, this is Shelly" says her friend.  Ok then, Ms. B thinks....as she takes another eyeful of Shelly with a hot body and a fearless spirit....its going to be like that then.  Later Ms B meets a hottie at the pool and they make out poolside, in the cabana and elsewhere.  There was more heat in Vegas than just what was on the thermometer!  She had other plans for her evening but kept Mr. Hottie from poolside on fire by "sexting" him all night with flirty and nasty little messages.  ohhh Ms B!  The wild pack of girls ran around Vegas, causing a raucous everywhere they went.  When the 3 girls arrived back at 6 am from their strip club escapades, they found Shelly in bed with the same gorgeous man from earlier.  The girls said, enough is enough.  That man is taking up valuable real estate during this girls weekend, and they promptly kicked him out.  The girls slept for a few hours and then did it all over again, though this time they were hung over, tired and definitely primed up for what was in store.  Ms. B found another boy on day 2, and this was was even better.  She made out with him and was excited for more.  After quite a few libations, the ladies brought 2 males back to their room and decided to have a dance party on the couch.  The ladies performed, bringing sexy back and tossed off their tops for their new audience.  OMG, though Ms B.  Well, what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas!

Miss Penny preps for a buck-wild new life

Miss Penny, was ready to burst out of her prim life and embrace dating, hook ups and SEX with someone different.  She was starting to date, and even putting herself out there in the single/mingle scene.

One day she was overly excited about going out with a group of girls and getting schooled in "being single" again, that she replied all to a dinner invite, "Wahoo, I'm in and I want to get laid, too.  Kidding. Kind of"

The funny part is that quickly another brazen female replied, "Me, too!" The best part of this is that aside from the good laugh we all had about the email exchanges, we are sure it will be a hilarious evening.  And you know what.....there are probably 2 or 3 girls in the bunch that feel the exact same way.  Say it.  Own it.  And maybe it will come true Ms. Penny.  God knows you deserve a good lay!

The Splendor of Sex in the City

The lovely foursome that we loved watching all those years are back, and even though they are in their 40s and 50's even....they still embody the glamour, the fun spirit, the adventure, the bravery and the fashion sense we all grew to adore and emulate.  Will there ever be a replacement for these fearless rockin chicks? I somehow doubt it.  Lets hope for Sex in the City III and IV, and V......

Beeeeanca strikes again

Ms. Bianca never had a shortage of flings.  She didn't work hard at it, but her personality was like a magnet that drew them in.  In a matter of a few weeks time, she found herself with a collection of new messages from these gentlemen she had met.  What's a girl to do?  Amidst a bustling party, she found herself flirting and talking with a good looking man.  He was cute, and very much interested in her, as his hands just kept migrating to any part of Bianca he could touch.  She was a bit disinterested, not convinced he had staying power in her life.  She flirted back, accepted a few kisses, and then was on her way.  A week later she is traveling and having a few drinks with her girl, checking out the scene.  Before she knows it, she finds herself in a hot make out session in the booth of the bar they were in.  Her friend continuing her conversations, while Bianca is enjoying some lip time with this nice looking young buck.  The blackberry banter continues between her and these men that she meets.  But until there is a true spark, they are just fun gents for her to pass the time with or perhaps just enjoy the moment with?  There is no time and no reason for Ms Bianca to lock herself down to just one man.  On to the next she goes.....

Goodbye to the PAST

There comes a time in every person's life when they need to say goodbye to their past life and move on; steadfast, hopeful, and open-minded.  For Ms. Paola Wylett this was indeed such a time.  She had endured a few years too many of an unfulfilling marriage, and had already fully grieved the loss of the life she once had (even though it was not always wonderful).  She was totally ready to face a whole new world and she was eager to start a new chapter.
The funny thing is that even though a situation may be less than fulfilling or ideal, many people cling to it for fear of change.  Somehow, it is more frightening to leave behind what is not so great,  to explore the many things out there in life which could bring you far more joy.  The tough thing is that when you are in those situations, it is sometimes difficult to see that.  The key is not letting it be your crutch for life, because the reality is....LIFE IS TOO SHORT.   But interestingly, those that love themselves truly, take that risk and relinquish a comfortable situation to search for something that may bring them true happiness.  Often times, or perhaps every time I should say, they do in fact find it.  Its funny how that works.  Ms. Paola will find it also, I have no doubt in my mind.  Here are some keys to getting back your splendor, your strength, your swagger, your mojo, your whatever you wish to call it:
1.  Work out, skip dinner, start a new health regime to earn a new body and a new confidence.
2.  Retail Therapy:  Buy shoes, jeans, dresses, tops....whatever makes you feel sexy, hot, ravishing....
3.  Enlist ultra positive friends to pump you up, play wingwoman and indulge in fun nights out, trips, happy hours, and "me-time" whatever shape or form that takes on.
4.  Take risks.  Stop being scared.  Stop fearing rejection.  Stop fearing that you will be lonely, alone forever, or sad.  Be bold.  Why the hell not?
5.  Let go of the past.  Don't hate, Don't be forever bitter....just let it go and think of it as a catapult to your new life and your new happiness and be thankful for that stepping stone in your life.
6.  Fall in love again.  Yep, you can do it.  Just open your heart and let it happen.  Enjoy!