Imagine the music playing, light flickering and a beautiful brunette dancing amongst her friends, twirling, smiling and seemingly, the center of the room. Viviana was a vivacious, spirited and sexy female who was always the life of the party. She was the kind of girl everyone wanted around. Though she had been in some bad relationships before that stifled the woman that she was, she had found a zest for life and an independence that ramped up her sex appeal. She was the girl who did her thing. To many, she was the envy of her friends because she wasn't desperate for a boyfriend or a husband, she simply was interested in "fun." She had a great time with her girls, lived how she wanted to live and embraced any opportunity to seize the day. Then, she met a man that changed things for her. She found herself caring and falling hard for this guy, even despite her best efforts to keep her guard up. After a few months of dating, she slowly tore down the walls and allowed herself to be vulnerable. Deep down, she still suffered from some wounds of the past and those little pains came out in curious places. She found herself doubting things here or there, though she didn't want to admit it. She struggled with trust, wondering if he had changed his ways from his bachelor life? But she loved him and so it was a huge hit for her when things fell apart. Everyone has their different methods of mourning. I find it interesting to see all the different mechanisms that people employ to get themselves back on their feet again. There are many tactics used, but here are a few that you can probably relate to: sleep, isolation, ice cream, sex, flirting, self deprecation, depression, personal trainers, online dating, girl time, drastic change, new hair style, exercise, etc. etc. This energetic beauty had lost her zest for quite a few months, as she tried to get her spirits back up. Eventually she regained herself, and likely she found an even better version of herself. I can't be sure, but I am guessing she thought a lot about herself, the relationship and what she desires in the future. Four months later, she is a gorgeous butterfly and full of that same sparkle that we know her well for. She was glowing recently, getting compliments and kind words from everyone around her who saw that ray of light within. We all have the ability to bounce back. When and how is our own issue to resolve. Viviana revealed that bouncing back can mean, emerging as even more beautiful and vibrant than ever before!
