Sex starts in the Shoes

 One thing a man must know is that sexiness starts when a woman dresses.  Depending on the evening prognosis and who she may be seeing, every piece of clothing and most importantly the shoes will reflect how she is feeling.  If you want to understand a woman's state of the union, really look at what she has pieced together.  Does her black bra strap peek out from under her tank top.  Hint: she is feeling sexy and wanted it perhaps to peek out.  Does she have an armful of bangles which makes a soft, clang when they touch and slide up her arm?  Does she have long, dangly earrings that swirl and dangle within her hair?  And most importantly, is she wearing sky high heels?  Are they platform?  Are they snakeskin?  Do they reveal well manicured toes?  Are they sexy tall boots that instantly have you imagining all kinds of things?  Before you check out her butt as she walks away, shake yourself up and take a closer look.  Look at the cues, get a sense for who she is and maybe, just maybe.....

tailor your approach, your voice, your choice of words, your entire vibe to the woman she is that night.