Monday, October 25, 2010

dating a daddy

While the concept of dating a man with children is daunting, even suicide to some.....what the hell is a decent man with kids who is alone supposed to do?  Is he supposed to find a woman with kids and do the brady bunch merger?  What if he feels young, loves his kids and wants to find a beautiful, smart, cool lady?  What then?  Brianna never gave the daddies a chance.  She figured life and dating was complicated enough.  She had a hard enough time getting a relationship to be successful these days and that was simply just worrying about one person!  She certainly did not think she could also navigate the treacherous hurdles of "their mother", child support complaints, development of "mom#2", the question of whether the kids would accept her, and the potential for a world of unforeseen challenges. Yet, nothing is perfect in life.  With every situation comes its serving of hurdles and struggles.  Stepping into a web of complexities may be worth it to gain a lifetime of love and new bright lights shining in your life.  Having an open mind is key and maintaining hope about good things in the world is vital.  Maybe, just maybe there was a greater level of patience, understanding and integrity embedded within the daddy?  Maybe it deserves a more in depth investigation?

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