if you are in a relationship, or hoping to nab a great woman that you've had your eye on, there are a few topics of conversation you should always steer clear of. The Rockin Chicks care, and want to help. Here is what NOT to say:
1) "Yea, you probably should go to the gym." This is not flat out telling us that we have gained weight, but we know exactly where you're going with this one.
2) "She's so hot!" This is okay, but it's all about context, and who it is you're referring to. Friends or enemies are off limits, and most importantly...so are little sisters.
3) "I love you", if you don't really mean it. As soon as you say this you are putting yourself in a committed relationship with responsibilities and then there will be expectations. If you are not ready for this step...stay away from any love conversations.
4) "My ex always/never/or was good at"…we don't want to hear it, at all. We don't want to hear about what you loved about your ex, or very many stories at all about "her" unless we ask. When dating a new person, it should be about moving forward!
5) Talking about your money. Cockiness is a turn off, and most of the time when men talk about how much money they make, it's a red flag that the exact opposite is probably the truth. Arrogance is NOT a turn on.
6) “Can I kiss you?” Ugh, flashbacks of high school. This gives us the impressions you don't have the guts to take initiative, and possibly that you have some serious confidence issues. Just go for it. If you feel a connection, it will be well received .
7) “You're overreacting/being too sensitive.” Just a word to the wise…this never goes over well.
8) "Do you want to split it?" This question should just not arise when you are looking at a bill for 2 sandwiches and 2 iced teas. Just pay the bill. Really?
9) When she does insist on taking you out, and paying the bill, don't say, "oh, cool" but please remember to say "thank you" to your lovely new lady.
I am skipping the 10th for now.......I feel like 9 is enough for most guys to gain some real insights.
4) "My ex always/never/or was good at"…we don't want to hear it, at all. We don't want to hear about what you loved about your ex, or very many stories at all about "her" unless we ask. When dating a new person, it should be about moving forward!
5) Talking about your money. Cockiness is a turn off, and most of the time when men talk about how much money they make, it's a red flag that the exact opposite is probably the truth. Arrogance is NOT a turn on.
6) “Can I kiss you?” Ugh, flashbacks of high school. This gives us the impressions you don't have the guts to take initiative, and possibly that you have some serious confidence issues. Just go for it. If you feel a connection, it will be well received .
7) “You're overreacting/being too sensitive.” Just a word to the wise…this never goes over well.
8) "Do you want to split it?" This question should just not arise when you are looking at a bill for 2 sandwiches and 2 iced teas. Just pay the bill. Really?
9) When she does insist on taking you out, and paying the bill, don't say, "oh, cool" but please remember to say "thank you" to your lovely new lady.
I am skipping the 10th for now.......I feel like 9 is enough for most guys to gain some real insights.
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