Monday, April 19, 2010

Don't forget to be SEXY

Life can get busy. We all fall prey to bills, work deadlines, hair thats not combed, piles of clothes that need to be washed, and a million others things that we need to think about. But if you have a significant other in your life, one thing you must never forget is to keep up the SEXINESS factor.

This is a lesson well worth the read for all of you that think sweatpants and a ratty t shirt works 7 nights a week. Sorry ladies, not so much. Its fine to be comfortable and perhaps you look cute in that ratty tee, and baggy PJ bottoms? But every so often, everyone appreciates a surprise. I have not met anyone who does not enjoy a special package, special packaging or something beautiful to look at. Right? Here are some tips to keep the Sexy quotient high in your world.


THE LIST
1. Work out, just make sure you do something to keep yourself from being a jelly donut
2. Confidence, perhaps the most important thing that we all should be wearing!
3. Being in the moment, forgetting everything else around you
4. Investing in something that makes you feel sexy....Lacy G-string, flirty chemise, silk boxers, sheer white tank and boy shorts, whatever that may be. Do it.
5. Don't forget that the sense of smell is important. Light candles, spray on some perfume, bring in some sweet smelling flowers, dot some lavender oil on the sheets....
6. Wine, chocolate, oysters, octopus....enjoy some aphrodisiacs to get things rolling.
7. Music. Figure it out and get it right.
8. Ignore the cell phone, blackberry, iphone or doorbell. Don't pull a Paris Hilton.
9. Don't forget to put in the effort. Make the moves, pamper your loved one, shower them with affection, and it will be returned to you!
10. Read this every few months so you do not forget. Keep up the Sexy!!

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