The first date with anyone is usually filled with a solid case of nerves, whether he is as hot as Pierce Brosnan or a few inches shorter than expected. The reality is that you are worried about how you look, worried about what to say and its hard to get a good read on chemistry. Many times, Sheila has been on first dates where she swore it would never work out between them and managed to give the gent another shot and voila, once the nerves were minimized, they both had a great time. No matter whether its a first date, a first kiss or a first roll in the sheets....the first time may be problematic. One must reserve judgement until the second time around on all occasions to really get a real assessment of the man, your chemistry and whether there is hope for a future together.
Sheila is currently dating a handful of men in the hopes of finding a great match for her. She has put in the maximum effort to go on all of these many first dates, dive into the unknown and strategically look for a great partner. Of course they don't all pan out. In fact, many times over, they are not the right fit and that is alright. Sheila is not fazed by the rejections, the 2 dates which never progress past that point or the guys who are not what she had imagined. In fact, she realizes that turning over every stone will eventually yield a gem.
For those of you who are afraid to put yourself out there, give it up. Stop fearing the unknown and realize the statistics and odds of dating....you have to get into the game if you are ever going to find a fantastic partner. The more you date, the more you experience and the richer life will be. Not to mention, just think of the funny dating stories you can share over a glass of pinot with your girls!
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