the Turn over of a flock

Just like that, with the snap of the fingers or a week away on a trip, everything can change. Its part of the turn over in life, something like natural selection in biology?  Viviana believes that what is meant to be with stick and the rest will bounce or fizzle or just be forgotten.   One week Viviana has a flock of 6, smiling ear to ear, she talks with her friends about her fun dates and messages.  She enjoyed all of them, but perhaps as the flock turns over, the last man standing is the one that matters? She describes her six-pack-clad wealthy cutie and their quiet evenings making healthy dinners overlooking the water, and her elegantly planned dates with Silver Fox, the smart doctor she thought she didn't like, or her outdoorsy creative date guy who brought the dog a bone, web design guy with his dimples, oh and how could she forget the adorably gorgeous young man from Europe, or the clever, romantic irishman from the hills, or her south african sweetie she just met.  The reality is that Viviana saw no shortage of new friends and flock members, and even if they do not stick, they serve a purpose and they have a role.  Let them all be, and let them all remind us that someday someone will matter and someone will stick.  That day will be the end of the flocks!  until then.....

its a small world after all

A stray dog is a stray dog and a random guy you bring home from a bar one night is strikingly a similar situation.

Janae filled her life with experiences and acted spontaneously to capture each moment and each opportunity.  She was here, she was there and lately had met a handful of random strangers.

Two evenings in the same month, she found herself a decent cutie, ending in some solid 2 am make-out sessions.  The funny thing is not the random 1:00 am acquisition, and then the solidification of that acquisition by continuing the party once the bar had closed its doors.  The humorous aspect is that each of these totally unique and random males were associated with another female in our friendship extended circle of rockin chicks.  So, does Janae have the same taste as this other female simply or is this the reality when you have lived in a place too long and the open options are becoming scarce?

Next time you take home a stray dog or go home with a stray, remember the world indeed can be quite small.  Look before you leap or leap and share the goods....

Red & The Jersey Shore

Little Red Riding Hood goes to Grandmothers house, but Red goes to the Shore!

Whether it was the clingy Irishmen who wanted a visa and a piece of Red, or perhaps it was the random-left- behind-cutie in the kitchen that later became a make-out partner, there was always an adventure for the girls in the Jersey Shore.  Before you immediately think Red was surrounded by snookie and company, these girls were in a much classier spot on the shore.  Its where the city folk from Philly head when they want to live the beach life.  Although its strange for Cali girls to venture all the way to the Jersey Shore, its much more about the vibe, the gentlemen and the attitude.  It just works.  Meanwhile Ms B was running around in her shortest shorts and sending smiles in all directions to random strangers, Red found a cutie that was worth the pursuit.  Finally they got privacy to have their moment which was filled with champagne, making out and good old summer beach memories.  3 lips later, Ms Red found 1 gem, 1 stalker and 1 stay in touch with perhaps save for later kinda boy.

Alas, timing is everything in life and although the gent was a gem, he may be ready for ripeness next summer.....as he needs to get his things in order to be a contender for Red.

Summer comes and summer goes, with a jaunt to the Shore, there is sure to be fun, make outs and flirts!

The obsessed

Sometimes you head out for a girls night out with hopes of lively banter, views of cute boys, maybe some fun flirtation and an opportunity to bond with your fabulous girls.  You are in the middle of doing just that, everyone has a stool at the bar, eyes are casing the joint, laughing at the ratio of men to women in this dive bar and a total menace approaches.  This particular menace is unruly, wasted, persistent, ravaged with bad breath, and stammering about, wavering against the bar and invading our space.  All it takes is a few more minutes and there you have it, the girls get pissed.  They ask him to leave, and he won't.  He just keeps on and on.  Why do the obsessed weirdos exist and persist?  Later that evening the girls evacuate, running down the street to ensure the creep is not on their trail.  They land at another spot, and chat with some sweet young lads.  Before departing, one of the young lads got so persistent about getting Ginny's number, she said "darling this is not realistic, I am a decade older and I simply know how these things end!" She felt like Samantha in SITC, breaking this cute little lad's heart that night as she fled the bar without handing over her digits.  Sometimes when you could care less, the men just want you more.

Cup of Tea & An Orgasm

How does one go with the other you ask?  Exactly!  Thus, Mina's confusion when she decided to go back to Shawn's place after their first kiss.  Her goal was to hang out for a bit more, kiss more, and head home in an hour so.  No harm, no foul. She was definitely not staying the night, and she was not giving anything up.  He was nice, their kiss was nice and it beckoned a bit more time together.  She settled in on his couch and Shawn being a gracious host, offered up a drink, "beer, water, perhaps a cup of tea?" He was a UK gent, so of course a cup of tea was in the mix.  She smiled and was refreshed by this international mingling.  Mina said some water would be nice, and they snuggled on the couch kissing and exchanging stories.  It was nice.  He was sweet, and the moment was one of those innocent and yet blissful times in life where you just want the exact thing to just remain and not go any further.

Suddenly, Shawn looked into her eyes and said, "Would you like an orgasm before you go?"  Just like he was asking if Mina would like a cup of tea. He used the same tone, the same voice, and the same polite, yet nonchalant attitude.  She could barely muster a response past her gasp!  "Um, no....thats ok!"  

While the gesture was perhaps thoughtful, unselfish, sensual...the verbalization was simply far too blatant.  She would rather not be asked if she wanted one of those, and would simply like for that to happen at the right time, in the moment, heated up, with desire flying off the richter scale and passion exploding, not sitting on a couch being offered up a cup of tea and an orgasm before she departed.  

Lost in Translation....perhaps?

Raw Desire

Sometimes despite age, distance, reality, and other pertinent factors, there is a truly raw desire which exists between 2 human beings that just beckons to be realized.  Whether it was in the air, the music that pounded within the walls of this steamy gay nightclub, the moon outside or the drinks consumed that evening, Shea and this gorgeous gentleman found each others' eyes quite a few times.  Across the crowded dance floor, they managed to pass quite a few messages of seduction just with their eyes.  Gaining courage, this gorgeous man walked by, with his eyes focused on Shea.  She stopped him and conversation ensued.  They danced a bit, they stared into each other's eyes and felt the desire.  They stepped outside so he could smoke, and they could gain some privacy to talk, and soon enough, they simply realized the desire and their lips met.  Inside, her friends were dancing while the music pumped and the reality of these two was far from feasible, however both threw caution out the door and enjoyed the moment under the moon.  The lights from the street cast a warm glow on his face, and he smiled as he gazed at her.  She smiled back, and he told her she was sexy in his lovely accent.  She enjoyed his sweetness, his beauty and continued kissing him.  The night ended on the dance floor, with more kisses.  Longing for more, but leaving it as so.  Unrealized passion but a raw desire that cannot be argued.  A cameo in life that provided a simple, glorious experience of sexiness.

Every little thing she does is magic

Everything she does just turns me on!
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When a person radiates happiness and energy, they become a magnet for others.  Unplanned and completely naturally, Miss Gia found herself in a spectacular place somewhat suddenly.  She was happy, eager to capture as many experiences as possible and excited about the new direction her life was going.  In this new enlightened state of mind, Gia was smiling all the time, running here and there, and diving into life with a new fervor.  Suddenly, she found herself meeting all kinds of new people, and drawing heaps of male attention.  She was loving this and enjoying every last minute of the fun doses of attention from all these lovely creatures.  Its funny how that works?  When you have a mission and you want so badly to find a partner, you find absolutely nothing.  In fact, perhaps you find bad eggs!  But when you are immersed in joy and excitement and you are completely happy with yourself, you draw in all kinds of great attention.  Its a beautiful thing.  So, even though we all know time ticks on, and being single has its up and downs.....embrace what you have.  Live each day to the fullest.  Flirt with that cute boy you see, smile at the stranger, sit down at a bar next to a guy you don't know and say hi, run down the street smiling ear to ear and just see what happens....I guarantee you will broaden your horizons!