Ohhhh Ms.Bianca

The tales of Ms. Bianca go deep, and provide a never ending motivation for all of us to seize the day and fully realize our female power.  Always spontaneous, always true to self, she embraces opportunity and enjoys life's pleasures.  Tangled up in a web of laughter, allure, halter dresses, big hats and smiles, she lures in her victims, or perhaps you can call them candidates, champions or winners of the greatest sweepstakes of all time?  Call it what you wish, but Ms. Bianca knows how to have a good time, and paradoxically remaining highly selective.  Just when you think you know what she is going to do, she surprises you!  Her skills are second to none as she draws in admirers from every island, city or venue she graces.  Not every woman can let themselves channel their inner Bianca, but even if they can summons the energy, release and sensuality for just one night, it will surely be a night to go down in history.  Go and get your Ms. Bianca on ladies.  She does it well.

Can gay boys play?

Its the perplexing question that haunts women when they spot a gorgeous gay man.  Can he or will he switch over, even just to play?  I mean, he has to appreciate beauty for beauty itself.  He has to want to touch flesh, and feel soft lips sans stubble?

Shoe Diva had help from a friend spotting a gorgeous specimen.  He was tall, well coifed, great teeth, nice hair and charm was oozing out of his beautiful pores. With a snappy line, the conversation opened and unfolded.  He was gay.  Of course!  But could he be tempted, even for tonight?  In conversations with gay men, I have been told that they have and will dabble with the opposite end of things.  Get your minds out of the gutter, I just mean....will they kiss a girl.  Kissing a gorgeous man, gay or straight is a fun prospect.  Making a guy you despise, perhaps an ex, or perhaps dozens of exes jealous is also a nice thing that a gorgeous gay man can help out with.  They are nice to have in the back pocket, ladies.  Find a gorgeous gay man (GGM) and keep him in your pocket.  Posting a flirtatious photo of you with a model type of man is bound to cause your facebook friends a case of envy, intrigue and create a wild commenting brigade.  Love it.  Go Shoe Dive, get your GGM's in order.

Gentle Ben

Sweet gentle Ben was in love.  He cherished Ms. A something fierce.  What started as a fling, has surely led to love. With each visit, he wants her more.  All he wants is for Ms. A to be happy.  He looks at her adoringly, he lets her order the pizza, and he wants to be sure to take care of her as best as he can.

The challenge with Gentle Ben?  Perhaps its maturity, age, money, or just an overriding sweetness?  He is too nice and Ms. A does not want to walk all over him like a little doormat.  She sighs as she thinks of how sweet, cute and wonderful he is to her.  But she needs a man!  She needs someone to take charge once in a while, tell her what to do, and make the plans.  Gentle Ben needs to take the bull by the horns, and not just roll around in the tall blades of grass smiling up at Ms. A.

Will someone teach Gentle Ben what to do?

Nordstrom Lingerie

Perhaps its time to do some shopping ladies?  Norstrom has a great selection of everything from fun colorful sets, to classic silk slips, to comfy robes and cute panties.  Check them out!  Our favorites happen to be Elle Macpherson, Betsey Johnson, Calvin Klein and Hanky Panky.  Enjoy! http://shop.nordstrom.com/C/6010812/0~2376776~2374327~6010810~6010812?origin=leftnav

Don't forget to be SEXY

Life can get busy. We all fall prey to bills, work deadlines, hair thats not combed, piles of clothes that need to be washed, and a million others things that we need to think about. But if you have a significant other in your life, one thing you must never forget is to keep up the SEXINESS factor.

This is a lesson well worth the read for all of you that think sweatpants and a ratty t shirt works 7 nights a week. Sorry ladies, not so much. Its fine to be comfortable and perhaps you look cute in that ratty tee, and baggy PJ bottoms? But every so often, everyone appreciates a surprise. I have not met anyone who does not enjoy a special package, special packaging or something beautiful to look at. Right? Here are some tips to keep the Sexy quotient high in your world.

THE LIST

1. Work out, just make sure you do something to keep yourself from being a jelly donut

2. Confidence, perhaps the most important thing that we all should be wearing!

3. Being in the moment, forgetting everything else around you

4. Investing in something that makes you feel sexy....Lacy G-string, flirty chemise, silk boxers, sheer white tank and boy shorts, whatever that may be. Do it.

5. Don't forget that the sense of smell is important. Light candles, spray on some perfume, bring in some sweet smelling flowers, dot some lavender oil on the sheets....

6. Wine, chocolate, oysters, octopus....enjoy some aphrodisiacs to get things rolling.

7. Music. Figure it out and get it right.

8. Ignore the cell phone, blackberry, iphone or doorbell. Don't pull a Paris Hilton.

9. Don't forget to put in the effort. Make the moves, pamper your loved one, shower them with affection, and it will be returned to you!

10. Read this every few months so you do not forget. Keep up the Sexy!!

Turnin up the Heat

When chemistry is alive, there is nothing like it. Viviana had no idea what she was in for her new man. She knew that there was mutual attraction, but she was not expecting wild, raw passion. There is a comfort factor to letting loose, and fully being in the moment. She had recalled relationships where there was never that comfort with sensuality or passion, and things just never really heated up. To think she wasted those years? She sighs, but smiles as she realizes the treasure she has come upon now.

On a warm, moist Spring night, she was drawn into a whirlwind of energy and emotion and feeling overrun with joy. After a romantic dinner, Viviana wanted to move things to the next level with her new man.  She was immersed in kisses, breathing, and passion, and from time to time, enjoyed just as much when their eyes met and they both paused to enjoy the calm. It was the tenderness amidst the raw sensuality that made the moments so intimate. It was an outward demonstration of their admiration, attraction and adoration for one another. It was a dizzying feeling. This was a night to remember.

obligatory make out

Brandy woke up the next morning wondering why she had to suck face with Mark the night before, when she was really not that into it at all? We have all been there. We have a few drinks, we flirt, and then the game is on. Soon enough its that dangerous time of the evening when everyone goes home. What do you do? Experience tells Brandy that slipping out secretly is not a bad option at all. But during that particular evening, she had forgotten her logic. This may be a common trait when drinks are involved, we must remind ourselves of this. Closing time came, and they were forced to share a cab. While she had enough sense not to invite him up, she could not escape without the obligatory make out. Right there in the cab, he went in for the kiss and proceeded to keep his mouth glued to hers for far too long. She tried to get into it, as she figured it may as well be enjoyable. She imagined someone else. She tried to think of a romantic setting in France perhaps with moonlight upon them. Nothing worked. She just did not have sparks for this guy. The kiss was fine, no horrendous technique issues were present. But when you are not into someone, the kiss is just not good. Perhaps this was just what Brandy needed to be confident in who she liked and who didn't like. No harm, no foul that particular evening. But, we all can certainly relate to the obligatory make out. Kissy Kiss.

Worth the Wait

Bree had this boy on her mind from time to time over the years. She'd see him here and there rather infrequently, and always felt a surge of excitement when she did. She found herself smiling quite a lot during the random times that they were in the same company. But she never thought much of it, as she doubted it had any future. Then one evening, they found themselves in a group of fun friends and got more of a chance to talk and realized quickly that there was indeed a mutual and exciting chemistry between them. She could not help but think of him after that night. She kept dismissing it. Later that year, he appeared once again and this time it was much harder to hold back her feelings. It was friendship for now and even a friendship was a beautiful and natural thing. Each of them went about their lives, and time passed. One day, the stars had aligned and the timing was finally on their side. They reunited at just the right time, and the magic was undeniable. Many of us have been jaded by inconsiderate partners, bad dating stories and failed relationships, so its difficult to imagine a pure and sweet love story anymore. Bree let down her guard, shelved her worries and decided to enjoy this blissful ride. As much as we see a whole lot of negative things in our world, there are just enough wonderful ones that exist, we just have to find them.