Location is Everything my dear

Sometimes you just have to apply the same level of strategy that you conjure up in the business world to the single life.  Hoping that I have not confused you yet, allow me to elaborate and put a very different kind of thinking cap on, dear.

Its not hard to imagine....you are single, and while life is fancy free you actually do want to meet an eligible bachelor at some point that completely knocks the wind out of you with his presence and charm.

Single girls commonly plan trips involving shopping, spas and sunbathing.  Well ladies, um......this is not where the single men are congregating.  Lets be honest, if you want to meet great guys you will need to carve out some of your precious free time and get strategic.

Suggestions for those ladies lacking the strategic element:
1.  Mountain towns:  I maintain this as numero uno on my list because the ratio is consistently in your favor no matter what town you choose anywhere on the globe.  The men are down to earth, a little wild and rough and its so damn easy to start conversation, toast a beer and have some real fun outdoors.  If you are not so outdoorsy it can still be a good spot to post up at the apres ski spot with a book enjoying the warm rays of sunshine or cozy up with that magazine in the lodge by the fireplace.  Likewise, hiking or walking about town looking cute is also pretty darn conducive even if you cannot tear up the slopes or rock hop on your mountain bike.  Mountain towns = more boys.  Trust me, you will be successful.
2. Sports/Divey Bars:  While I am just as guilty as any girl by wanting to go to the chic spot and sit enjoying caprese salad and ahi tartar with my girlfriends while sipping a ginger-tini, there will be more men at the sportsy/divey bar watching a game or just kicking back enjoying a belgian ale.  Again, these men are approachable and appreciative of pretty little you being in their dark man cave brightening things up.
3.  Burger Joints:  You may be starting to catch on by now....yes, you simply think of the place you really want to go and then go to the opposite kind of place.  While anyone may appreciate a good burger, whether its good ole beef, snazzed up turkey burger or a veggie patty with veganaise, most of the time a woman will choose the asian fusion spot, or the healthy indian spot or the hip patio with california cuisine.  Sure, men go to all those places but you will never strike out if you roll into the burger joint garnished with a smile and ready to meet boys.

I cannot give away all of my secrets ladies or I will be fightin off girls while I try to nudge my way to the old bar in my favorite mountain town next to the unassuming hottie!

Mr Big Stuff

It had been a long time coming that Alesha had a thing for Billy.  Life had taken them down different paths, but every time she encountered him over the years, it sparked something within her.  He was the guy that had her heart, and maybe didn't even know it?

With Billy newly single, Alesha had a chance to spend some much desired time with him.  Having a good time together was a given.  Her mouth ached from smiling so much that night.  Later that night, after having enough drinks to hamper his driving abilities, they retired back to her place.  She thought he was an amazing guy, but had never had a chance at real romance with him until this point.  Excitement filled the room that evening. She sat starry eyed in the bedroom and GASP, she almost fell over onto the ground when she witnessed Mr Big Stuff.  Never in her life had she seen something so large.  She wondered if this whole thing was going to work?  Alesha questioned herself about the plausibility of this thing actually fitting as she stared in disbelief. (her mouth may have actually been open at this point with awe)  Well, somehow it did.  It fit.  It worked.  It worked well.

For now, Alesha and Billy are keeping things cool.  Each of them are doing their thing in life, but Alesha is hoping once he settles into his new state of being that he will realize the magic that they have and come running to snatch her up.  She still is as mystified by the big stuff as she was the first time she saw it, and probably always will be.  See you this winter Mr. Big Stuff....

the allure of the ballerina

Everyone loves a ballerina.  They are blessed with the dichotomy of innocence and allure, all while being graceful and lean.  There is always a magic about Paris.  The combination of ballerinas and Paris virtually created a combustion within the walls of VIP Room.  Crystal and Tabby were dolled up in their heels, dresses and glasses of champagne as they looked up to the center stage in one of the most gorgeous clubs in the city.  They saw not a typical go go dancer gyrating to the beats, but alas, a blush tutu clad duo of dancers.  Amazingly, both the women and men inside the walls of this club were mesmerized by the sight.  Tabby pushed her way to the zone below the stage so she could get a closer look at this beautiful sight.  Why is it that Paris has the chicest go go dancers in the world?  And why has no one on this planet thought of a ballerina burlesque club?  Perhaps a nutcracker suite for male purveyors would be a ravishing success: complete with dancers en pointe, ribbons dangling from the ceiling, topless tutu dancers and everything pink?  Perhaps ballerinas have us spinning but we think we're onto something!

Sex starts in the Shoes

 One thing a man must know is that sexiness starts when a woman dresses.  Depending on the evening prognosis and who she may be seeing, every piece of clothing and most importantly the shoes will reflect how she is feeling.  If you want to understand a woman's state of the union, really look at what she has pieced together.  Does her black bra strap peek out from under her tank top.  Hint: she is feeling sexy and wanted it perhaps to peek out.  Does she have an armful of bangles which makes a soft, clang when they touch and slide up her arm?  Does she have long, dangly earrings that swirl and dangle within her hair?  And most importantly, is she wearing sky high heels?  Are they platform?  Are they snakeskin?  Do they reveal well manicured toes?  Are they sexy tall boots that instantly have you imagining all kinds of things?  Before you check out her butt as she walks away, shake yourself up and take a closer look.  Look at the cues, get a sense for who she is and maybe, just maybe.....

tailor your approach, your voice, your choice of words, your entire vibe to the woman she is that night.

Oh Hair Yeah

 What is SEXY?  A big head of hair is sexy for sure.  Here are some visuals and you can judge for yourselves.  But Talisa knows that she gets weak in the knees when she sees a man with sexy tresses.  Ah, the allure of hair......

The key to sexy hair is first and foremost nutrition.  If you eat right, your hair should grow, and supplementing with vitamins is also helpful. You just have to do what is necessary to achieve the luxurious mane we all dream about.  See House of Glam Beauty's Hair Vitamin Secrets

 In the heat of the moment, when the lights are dimmed, and you grab a full head of hair, its absolutely sensuous.  No matter what color or what age you are, you can channel your inner hair goddess.  Talisa likes to suds up with Kerastase line of products which create a tremendous shine.  Having your hair twirled and fondled is magnificent.  It is somewhat like the peacock with their lovely feathers.....flash your goods.

Growler

What happens when you combine a grown man with a few cans of beer = the growler!  Yes, this can really happen.  When you hear it, you will know.  It is a combination of talking mixed with growling or a heavy breath and a roll of the r perhaps?  Nevertheless, it is indeed a strange phenomenon.  Why does this occur spontaneously?  I suppose that question lines up with why is the sky blue and why did Tiger Woods think he could screw a bunch of trashy chicks and never be found out or why do twinkies never spoil?

dating a daddy

While the concept of dating a man with children is daunting, even suicide to some.....what the hell is a decent man with kids who is alone supposed to do?  Is he supposed to find a woman with kids and do the brady bunch merger?  What if he feels young, loves his kids and wants to find a beautiful, smart, cool lady?  What then?  Brianna never gave the daddies a chance.  She figured life and dating was complicated enough.  She had a hard enough time getting a relationship to be successful these days and that was simply just worrying about one person!  She certainly did not think she could also navigate the treacherous hurdles of "their mother", child support complaints, development of "mom#2", the question of whether the kids would accept her, and the potential for a world of unforeseen challenges. Yet, nothing is perfect in life.  With every situation comes its serving of hurdles and struggles.  Stepping into a web of complexities may be worth it to gain a lifetime of love and new bright lights shining in your life.  Having an open mind is key and maintaining hope about good things in the world is vital.  Maybe, just maybe there was a greater level of patience, understanding and integrity embedded within the daddy?  Maybe it deserves a more in depth investigation?